Updated for 2025: We’ve refreshed this guide with new examples and updated etiquette as photo‑op rules, guest interactions, and convention flow continue to evolve.
One question we get asked about comic cons is how to get the most out of a celebrity interaction. At comics cons, you will meet celebrity guests either at their table or during a photo op. Both have their draws. Autographs are exceptional collector’s items. A personalized signature is an excellent way of having a personal memento, while a non-personalized one will retain value and allows for it to pass down to others (or sold if needed.) Photo-ops actually prove that you met the celebrity guests.
We have been to a lot of cons together and we have done both photo-ops and table signings. In this blog, we will tell you how to get the most out of a celebrity interaction at a comic con.
Whether you’re a first-time attendee or a seasoned con-goer, a little preparation can turn a quick encounter into a memorable experience.
How To Get The Most Out Of a Celebrity Interaction at a Comic Con or Convention
Photo-Op
While photo-ops often (but not all the time) allow you to get really close to a celebrity, they also don’t have much in the way of interaction. Photo companies have gotten it down to modern science. You are in, and you are out.
Sometimes, you may get the actor to pose a certain way. Make sure you know what you want beforehand. Handshakes are usually ok, but fistbumps are preferred for sanitary reasons. If the handlers say no touching, please respect that. Don’t drive a celebrity guest away from doing conventions.
Sometimes, you may get lucky as we did with Charlie Hunnam. He needed a sip of water, so while waiting, we got to tell him it was our anniversary. He is an actor, a very good (and beautiful) one, but his good wishes did seem genuine.
Today, many photo ops are even more streamlined than when we first wrote this—so knowing your pose and expectations beforehand matters more than ever.
Table Signings
Meeting the actors at their table tends to enable more meaningful interaction. They have to sign, and that takes time. Most know they are getting good money for a 30-60-second communication and are good sports about it.
The first rule: remember they are not their character. The guest may not even be a fan of the show they are on. Many dislike watching their own work (as a former coach, I feel this in my bones). Most don’t obsess over it the way we do (Sam Witwer is a very notable exception…he will know more than you).
So what do you talk about with them? Talk about acting. That’s their job. We all want to be told we did our jobs well, whether its by our boss or someone who just happened to observe us working. Actors work hard at their craft, so acknowledging it is always a great way to go.
Know a little about them, but don’t make it creepy. A former co-worker of mine was Anthony Mackie’s drama teacher in New Orleans. So when we met him, I brought up our mutual connection. We started talking about a specific approach to breaking down movies that our friend used. The Mrs. said it was like watching two long lost friends have a conversation. I wish!
When we met Patrick Stewart, he had previously canceled at another con that we had attended that had a large portion of the TNG cast. We did ask him why he wasn’t in New Orleans. That’s actually very rude. We instead said we wished we would have got to meet him in New Orleans but that we understood. That slight change in words changes the tone, and he talked to us about New Orleans for a little bit.
Speaking of New Orleans, use your home city as a talking point. Asking guests how they like New Orleans can bring about some interesting conversations. Julie Benz and I talked about alligators, which lead to her showing me a phone picture of her dog. When we are an out of town convention, we love to mention Louisiana and/or New Orleans, because, hey, who doesn’t like New Orleans.
If you get star-struck, it is ok. They can sense it. In fact, they can smell it. No, just kidding. But often, they may be used to it. And the great ones are actually in awe of your awe. Those are the ones who will be patient with you.
In recent years, many guests have leaned even more into meaningful short conversations, especially when fans respect boundaries and come prepared.
Randomly at the Con or in Public
You will rarely get this with a larger guest, as they will have security around them. At smaller cons, you may be able to strike up a conversation. Do not ask for an autograph or a selfie. They are working and are on a break. Don’t ask them to work on their break. And respect personal space. If they are on their phone, let them use it. Tell them “hi” by all means, but be polite.
Now, outside of a con is a whole other animal. In-person autographs require significant effort and charm. It’s not something we have tried to do, so we may get a guest blogger to discuss the topic one day.
Meanwhile, at a con, be yourself, and you will be surprised at how many guests will be that way in return.
Quick Celebrity Interaction FAQ
Is a photo op or table signing better?
Photo ops are quick and provide proof that you met the guest, while table signings usually allow for more conversation. If interaction is most important, choose the table.
In some cases, autographs can be resold, but this depends on the level of personalization, authenticity, and market demand.
What should you say to a celebrity at a convention?
Focus on their work, not their personal life. A sincere compliment or thoughtful question about acting goes much further than quoting a line.
Is it okay to be nervous meeting a celebrity?
Absolutely. Most guests are used to it and are often very gracious. Take a breath and be yourself.
Liked this write-up? Then check out our ComicCon-ing 101 where we try to guide you through a comic con experience!
What do you think of our tips? Do you have any of your own? What subjects do you talk about with celebrity guests when you meet them? Let’s talk about it in the comments!
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