Curating a Geek Family Library: A Cultural Touchstone for All

Published on May 15, 2025 by Kurt Hargis
Last Updated on May 14, 2025 by Kurt Hargis

curating a geek family library

Have you ever dreamed of building a geek family library that perfectly reflects your geeky passions? For us, creating a space where books, games, and shared interests collide feels like the ultimate way to embrace who we are as a family.

Curating a Geek Family Library

A geek family library isn’t just about shelves of books—it’s about fostering curiosity, critical thinking, and imagination in a place where everyone, from the youngest reader to the most seasoned nerd, feels at home.

Here’s how we’re approaching this exciting (and slightly overwhelming) project, using our geeky hearts as a compass to create something truly special.


The Purpose of a Geek Family Library

What makes a geek family library different from a standard bookshelf? It’s not just the content—it’s the intent. A geeky library is a deliberate mix of knowledge and culture, where stories of sci-fi adventures, magical realms, and historical epics coexist alongside comics, board games, and even STEM kits.

It’s a space where every family member, no matter their age or educational background, can find something that sparks their imagination.

The benefits are huge. Shared passions in the library create opportunities for intergenerational bonding through activities like family reading nights or collaborative projects.

Plus, having a shared space for learning and play inspires curiosity and critical thinking, turning everyday moments into lifelong memories.


Foundational Collection Development

Building this library means starting with the essentials. For us, the core genres are clear: sci-fi, fantasy, comics, and historical fiction (mom and dad are history majors). These genres are the heart of geek culture, offering something for every interest and age.

We’re making sure to include age-appropriate materials because fostering a love of reading for our little one is a huge priority. Right now, she’s obsessed with Bible stories and Dork Diaries, and we couldn’t be happier to support her interests.

Our little one reading Mo Willems, an author she once said “give me the wonder

Balancing classics like The Lord of the Rings and Harry Potter with newer works is also key. We’re excited to introduce these timeless tales to our daughter when the time feels right.

Meanwhile, my wife and daughter are already bonding over their shared love of The Baby-Sitters Club. The little one came home with a Baby-Sitters Little Sister book the other day, and Mom’s smile was as wide as the sky.

Also, while we love a well-written book, we are not snobs. I can enjoy Camus’s The Stranger as much as I can reading Marvel Comics. Both have their place in our library.

That’s the magic of a geek library—there’s room for everyone’s favorites!


Physical Space Design

This is where we’re struggling the most, and I bet we’re not alone. Creating an inviting, functional space for the library is a challenge when you’re balancing books, collectibles, and games. Especially when we have a bad habit of buying more books, etc, than we have storage space for!

We’re dreaming of cozy reading corners, smart storage solutions for non-traditional items like board games and tabletop RPGs, and maybe even a touch of tech integration for our digital collections.

The goal is to design a space that feels alive, where every shelf, box, and table invites exploration. It’s about creating a physical environment where our geeky passions can thrive, and more importantly, where our family can connect.

Again, if you come into our house, you won’t see it just yet. But every time we go to IKEA, we have a new dream for our home. One of our best-managed areas is our record collection, which we manage using the Kallax bookshelf system.


Digital Collection Management

While we’re not big on purchasing eBooks, we love using library apps like Libby and Hoopla. These tools let us borrow digital books, audiobooks, and even comics without breaking the bank. They’re a lifesaver for expanding our collection without adding clutter to our already-tight space.

Digital collections also offer flexibility. They make it easy to share resources across devices, giving everyone in the family access to something they love. It’s a perfect balance of convenience and accessibility.

Also, Amazon’s Prime Reading makes for a good way for us to share books.


Cross-Generational Engagement Strategies

One of the best parts of a geek family library is how it brings everyone together. We’re excited to start family reading nights, diving into books like The Hobbit or Harry Potter as a shared experience. These stories aren’t just entertaining—they’re a way for us to pass down values like courage, friendship, and resilience. (I know…that is a topic for another blog on another day).

Beyond reading, we’re looking at collaborative projects inspired by our collection. Whether it’s building LEGO replicas of Hogwarts or cooking recipes inspired by our favorite fandoms, the possibilities for family bonding are endless. Mentorship also plays a role here, helping our daughter discover new interests while sharing our own passions with her.


Expanding Beyond Books

A geek library isn’t just about books—it’s about celebrating all aspects of geek culture. For us, that means incorporating board games, tabletop RPGs, and STEM kits into the mix. We also love to add projects we learn at Girl Scout events. These additions make the library a hub for interactive learning and play, where imagination knows no bounds.

We’re also exploring digital making tools, like coding kits (Dad does teach comp sci, after all) or 3D printing guides, and citizen science projects to encourage creativity and hands-on learning. It’s all about creating an environment where curiosity can flourish and where every family member feels inspired to try something new.


Curation Principles

Curating a family library comes with its own challenges, especially when it comes to quality versus quantity.

We want our collection to reflect the best of geek culture, with diverse representation and a balance of specialized and accessible content. Diversity is incredibly important to us—our library should be a place where every voice is heard and celebrated. Moreover, it is important for us to learn about people who don’t have the same problems we face.

At the same time, we’re learning to let go of the “more is better” mindset. It’s not about having every book, game, or kit—it’s about curating a thoughtful collection that feels meaningful and intentional.


Sustaining and Growing the Library

Building this library is a long-term project, and we’re always thinking about sustainability. Budget is a big consideration, so we’re taking advantage of community resources like library sales, book swaps, and programs like Friends of the Library. These options help us grow our collection without overspending.

We’re also looking for ways to evolve the library as our interests and needs change. Maybe that means adding new genres or exploring emerging technologies. The key is staying flexible and open to new possibilities.

One of the steps we are going through now with “new” book purchases is trying to limit them to signed editions that can be passed down to our little one. This keeps our shelves from overflowing.

It also allows us to support local bookstores like Octavia Books and Baldwin and Co.


The Legacy of a Geek Family Library

At its core, this library is about more than books or games—it’s about creating a legacy.

It’s a way to shape our family culture, building traditions that bring us closer together. Whether it’s reading The Hobbit all snuggled up in bed or spending a Saturday afternoon playing Star Wars Destiny, these moments will stay with us for years to come.

A geek family library isn’t just a collection—it’s a living, breathing part of our home. It reflects who we are, what we love, and how we connect as a family. And that, to me, is the ultimate geeky adventure.


TL;DR: FAQ on Geek Family Library

A geek family library is a dedicated space where books, games, and geek culture collide. It’s more than just a collection—it’s a place that fosters curiosity, critical thinking, and imagination for every family member, no matter their age or interests.
A geek family library creates opportunities for bonding, inspires creativity, and encourages lifelong learning. It’s a way to celebrate shared passions while creating a space for family connection and exploration.
Our Core genres would include:
    • Sci-fi (e.g., Dune, The Martian).
    • Fantasy (e.g., The Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter).
    • Comics and graphic novels (e.g., Marvel, DC, Maus).
    • Historical fiction (e.g., Anything by Philippa Gregory).
You make your library YOUR library! Be sure to balance classics with newer works and include age-appropriate materials for younger readers.
Focus on curating intentional materials that reflect your family’s passions and values. Avoid the “more is better” mindset and prioritize meaningful content over sheer numbers. Ride around your favorite neighborhoods or cities and donate older books to little free libraries so someone else may build thier own geek family library!
Use library sales, book swaps, and Friends of the Library events. Borrow digital materials through apps like Libby and Hoopla. Support local bookstores and look for signed editions of your favorite works.
The goal is to create a living, breathing space that reflects your family’s identity and passions. It’s about celebrating geek culture, inspiring curiosity, and connecting as a family.

Your path to making a geek family library

What about you? What would you include in your geek family library? Share your ideas in the comments—we’d love to hear how you’re creating spaces for curiosity and connection in your home!

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